The Cure for Insecurity

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With the release of my new book, Facing the Mirror, due out in less than a week, my heart continues to mull over certain topics addressed in the book. And once again, I’m reminded of the plague of insecurity that the devil contaminates believers with in hopes of getting them off track.

Thankfully, this is an area I recognize quickly because it’s something I battled fiercely for so many years. It still knocks on my door but I don’t answer it anymore because I’ve learned who I am in Christ and understand my purpose is found only in Him.

But this isn’t the case for most people. Many are bombarded daily with the fear of rejection although it can be covered in many ways. I meet people all the time who hide behind masks only letting their eyes reveal the truth. Some masks smile, some show no emotion, while others change regularly trying to find just the right “disguise” to hide what’s really going on inside.

I’ve come to realize insecurity is an epidemic. It doesn’t care who you are. It will find a way in your heart if you let it. In Facing the Mirror, I write:

Insecurity is an evil. It doesn’t matter if you’re young or old, male or female, American or European. Every human being has to come face-to-face with insecurity at some point in time. With the best of intentions, our friends and family can tell us how wonderful and loved we are, but unless we believe it for ourselves, insecurity has the ability to squelch dreams, mask truth, and redefine destinies. “For as he thinks in his heart, so is he” (Proverbs 23:7a).

God has created every person unique with individual gifts, talents, and callings. But with the world and media constantly blasting their idea of perfection on each new generation, it’s hard to find your true self in the mix. From kids on the playground to executives in a boardroom, insecurities can arise from comparisons and a lack of inner confidence—and that’s if you are close to perfect by the world’s standards.

So what about the person who was abused or neglected as a child? How do the injured, the maimed, the rejected, and the self-inflicted find confidence in who they are in a world that barely lets the “beautiful and perfect” person survive? [Facing the Mirror, page 6]

This is a good question, but not the one we need to focus on. A better question is, “What’s the cure for this plague?”

The answer is an understanding of who we are in Christ. It may sound religious, but it’s not. My answer may even sound too simple, and maybe it is, but that’s what the devil doesn’t want you to know.

Paul nailed it when he said, “For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him” (2 Corinthians 5:21). The Amplified Bible says, “For our sake He made Christ [virtually] to be sin Who knew no sin, so that in and through Him we might become [endued with, viewed as being in, and examples of] the righteousness of God [what we ought to be, approved and acceptable and in right relationship with Him, by His goodness].”

Number one, it was for “our sake” God made this exchange for us. And number two, what matters is how God sees us. The righteousness we received at salvation is a vaccine against insecurity. It is the only cure.

The devil has many counterfeits (or we could say over-the-counter imitations), but they are nothing more than another mask. When you’ve found freedom from insecurity, you don’t need a mask because your life is now “hidden in Christ” (Colossians 3:3). He becomes the only covering you need–the perfect vaccine against the plague.

It is my prayer that every person discover these truths. It is the primary reason I wrote Facing the Mirror: Finding a Self to Live With.

Question: How do you fight the continual plague of insecurity? 

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This post was written by

Daphne DelayDaphne Delay – who has written posts for Mirror Ministries.
Author, Speaker. Forgiven and Free. Proclaiming the good news of God's righteousness to this generation!

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Comments (4)
  • Jackie h

    Insecurity has always been my biggest battle in life. Everyday I feel like my security gets stronger its cause my faith is getting stronger. The more I read His word and dwell on Him the more secure I get.. For He is my strength.. :)

    • http://www.mirrorministries.org Daphne Delay

      I think insecurity is an issue for almost everyone. We all deal with it (or hide it) differently, but you’re right about the solution… replacing insecure thoughts with God’s Word! It’s the best antidote!

  • Shannon

    I’m going to be honest and I really don’t know how to say this but I’ll try. – Insecurity is something that I seem to have to consciously turn away from every day. I have to make a conscious effort to not let myself believe those lies and to believe the truth every day. One thing that I found myself doing that would feed those insecurities would be to look at the work of others (I’m a photographer so I would look at another photographer’s work). I would look at this work and cover what I was really doing (compairing my work with theirs) with an excuse of “just seeing what their up to” or “I just think it’s pretty and I enjoy looking at it” or something that I would think would be benign. I noticed that I would feel really crummy (really, really crummy) after “just looking” and I realized what I was doing. Feeding the insecurity. I actually stopped looking at other photographers work for a set period of time (I think I gave myself two weeks) so that I could again focus on God, the plan that God has for me and where I am on the path of my destiny. I learned that I am on a certain point on the path of my destiny. My path and my destiny are different from anyone else’s. When I feel that I may be feeding the insecurity monster again I put my eyes back on God and speak it, “My path and my destiny is different from (fill in the blank). It is not any greater or any less than (fill in the blank). I trust God.”

    • http://www.mirrorministries.org Daphne Delay

      That’s excellent Shannon. Thank you for sharing. You had all the right tools: you recognized the insecurity, you stopped the pattern, and you replaced your thoughts with confessions that line up with God’s Word and how He sees you. Perfect! I agree it’s a daily battle. But in reality, so is so many other things! A life of victory is not a lazy life. It’s the result of determination, wisdom, knowledge, and regular application (that can eventually become good habits)!

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